I have been asking myself whether I want to link to this, or to just type it in and associate it with the author (PGK). I really think it is a marvelous post and a wonderful piece of writing, so I am putting both the text and the link, cause I think everyone should read this. That does beg the question of why I think it should go in here though! 
The thing is, you just never, really, have a clue. You just can’t tell. You can’t be sure. You might be wrong. Basically, you just didn’t spot it. You didn’t realise it at the time and you didn’t know anything about it. So why should it be any different now?
See! Don’t you feel better about it all now?
